So as I sit here and type this I think it is important to give you a bit of history as to how I came here. For the last nine months, hubby and I have been following a Keto way of eating (WOE). What that means is that we eat high good fats, moderate protein and low carbs. Low carbs in the area of less than 20 grams a day. To give you an idea that is one average sized potato or the bottom of a hamburger bun. They call this a WOE because truly you’re changing your thinking about food, which in turn is changing your body. So with this new WOE has come weight loss. And with this weight loss has come the need to purchase new clothing. Now for a girl who has been in the plus sized world her whole life, moving out of that world into the “normal” store world is a bit daunting. In the plus sized world, I knew that when I walked into the store, it would be people who looked like me. Either a little bit smaller or a little bit bigger, but at the end of the day if you weren’t of a certain size, you weren’t shopping there. In the “normal” world, the size zeros and two intermingle with the size 14 and 16s. And you have everything in between.
I am a tailor’s daughter in case you didn’t know so from a young age I understood body measurements and the importance of knowing them and altering clothing to fit your type of body. So one thing I had going for me this whole time is my measurements were that of a models. No, no I never had a model’s body but my measurements were even, they fit. Now this new body isn’t even and doesn’t fit. So dresses are out and mix and match is in, which brings me to my latest shopping expedition. I go to the GAP in hopes of finding some clothes. Their jeans tend to fit me well. Now one little tidbit that I’ve found is that the outlet clothes in adults fit larger than at the actual store, where as the outlet kids stuff needs to be sized up.
Anyways, I’m at the actual store and find a pair of jeans I’m looking for in my size, super. Then I move to tops. I’m looking at a few different ones and you know when you can just tell some stuff is sized bigger? Well in this case I grab a medium, large and XL. Three different designs, three different sizes and all three fit. Now I assure you if you haven’t seen me I’m in no way shape or form a medium size. But thank you Gap for stroking my ego for a few minutes. But my point in bringing this up is we have a generation of girls growing up with visuals of models who are size 0, 2 and 4s and while progress is being made both on the runway and in mainstream media to show women of all sizes, this crap is playing with our minds. How is a girl not going to feel bad when she really is a medium but can also fit into an XL? Why can’t there be more consistent sizing? Why can’t your measurements reflect the same size regardless of the brand? How can the measurements of a typical size 8 be considered an XL by some manufacturers? Seriously clothing industry?! As a mom to a daughter, I know that these are issues that she will face in the coming years and something that we’ll have to navigate together.
What is your experience? Have you ever been able to wear multiple “sizes” in one store? Is my experience a one off or am I not alone?
Thanks for the memories 2017. I’m not big on resolutions because really each day is a blessing and an opportunity to make a change. You don’t need January first for that. My chance came June 7th. Nothing really significant about that day but it was the day hubby and I decided to change our way of eating and joined the Keto bandwagon.
Now most people hear Keto and thing bacon and high cholesterol. That isn’t what it is all about, although bacon is a perk! I really didn’t expect much I mean after all I had been overweight my whole life. Although I was never one to diet as they really don’t last, I had made a lifestyle change before getting pregnant. My goal was to get back to that weight. Slow and steady wins the race as they say. Well six months later I’m happy to report I’m there. I’d like to think I’m a modest person but gosh darn it, this was a great accomplishment. One I should be proud of, and even more importantly one I got to share with my hubby who rocked the hell out of Keto! I’m so proud of him. A friend asked me if I’m at my goal weight? I’m not sure what that would be. If I look on that list of height/weight at the doctor’s office I’m probably still considered overweight, maybe even obese. But who the hell is 5’10” and 115lbs?? Other than a supermodel of course.
I’ve learned to not worry about that number on the scale. I’ve learned to trust the process. I wasn’t sure wether or not I should even write this post but if I can encourage one person to make a change then it was worth it. I’m not specifically talking about weight loss, it can be about anything. Stop being scared. You have to start somewhere. Why not let today be that start? You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Take the class, go for that hike, give it a shot.
Wishing you all a very Happy New Year. May your 2018 be full of health, happiness, love and laughter! And remember go for it! Whatever is holding you back isn’t worth it.
Well I’m back. I’m sorry for taking such a long break, that never was my intent but sometimes, a break is good for the soul. I come back to you a year older, yes, I celebrated a birthday last month. I come back to you another year married, we celebrated an anniversary this month and I come back to you a bit lighter. This weight is both literal and figurative. If you haven’t seen me in a while I’m a few pounds down…not to worry, nothing is wrong with me. The hubby and I have tried a new way of eating called Keto (whick I’ll tell you more about in the coming weeks) and it seems to agree with us both. It is a daily choice we make to stay on track and yes, it is a choice but one that we’re willing to make for that feisty preschooler we have. The kid has asked me to no longer call her a toddler, which actually she is no longer in that defined title. Usually that stops at the age of three and since the kid had a half birthday during my break well, she’s now in a category all on her own! My preschooler has kept me busy to say the least and with the holidays almost upon us, it’ll just get more hectic. Now is the time to set those family traditions that hopefully she’ll remember for a lifetime. We’re fortunate to have booked a few events that I hope will excite her and remind us of what the true meaning of Christmas is all about. So I’m back and look forward to connecting with you all in the coming weeks and months.